adversityanywaybalancebehindbreakingbrokencarechangingconflictconnectioncontroldaughterdaviddealdonemotionalfindingfreegettinggohappinesshealthholdinghomehurthurtsidentityinsteadjourneylessonslettinglifelightlivinglovemotherpeopleprimaryracismrereinventionrelationshipsroadsarahselfseriessettingshotsizesomeonespacestartstrengthsuccesssundaysupporttoxictraveltruetrusttryuswayswhiteworkworldyear