acrossadhdauthenticitybigbusinesschangecomedycommunicatingconversationculturesderrickdoedone1e2e3expectationexpectationsexploringfindgetgroundingidentityimpulsivelifelivemaintainingmanymaralenneurodivergentothersrealrepresentingrespectingseasonsiersmithsoberstruggletaylorthousandsweird