In this episode, I speak with Kelila Heller, co-founder of Assisted Living Connections, an expert who helps families place their loved ones in assisted living and other similar type communities. We talk about one of life's toughest transitions: finding the right care for an aging parent or loved one.
Kelila, her partner Tami Podell, and their team have helped hundreds of families across Ventura and LA County navigate the emotional, financial, and logistical challenges of senior care—from independent living to memory care, assisted living, and beyond. With warmth, honesty, and deep expertise (including helping my family more than once), Kelila shares real-world guidance for making confident decisions during a stressful time.
🗝️ What You'll Learn:
When is the right time to start planning for senior care?
Assisted living vs. in-home care—what's the real cost?
What are the types of senior care: independent, assisted, memory care, and residential board and care?
How do families pay for care: Social Security, long-term care insurance, reverse mortgage, VA benefits, and more
What red flags to look for when deciding if it's time to seek help
How a senior placement advisor can make all the difference in finding the right fit
How socialization, safety, and mental health factor into senior care decisions
Why proximity to family members is crucial—and what happens if you wait too long
💡 Key Quotes:
"You don't have to hire us—our services are free. We're like a real estate agent for senior living."
"Planning early gives you options. Waiting until there's a crisis limits them."
—Kelila Heller
🔗 Resources Mentioned:
• Website: www.assistedlivingconnections.com
• Phone: 888-800-1811
• Coverage Area: Ventura & West LA County (with referrals available nationwide)
• Nonprofit Partner: Senior Concerns
