Episode Summary: In this episode, we break down a powerful mindset mantra: "If I can't, I must. And if I must, I will." We move beyond the quote and turn it into a tactical action plan to help you overcome limiting beliefs, procrastination, and fear. Whether it's public speaking, fitness, or a business goal, we discuss how to audit your resistance, turn your excuses into your "why," and use the "Do It Badly" rule to generate undeniable momentum.
Key Takeaways & Action Steps:
- The Mantra: Adopting the mindset of "If I can't, I must; if I must, I will" to reframe limitations as obligations.
- Step 1: The Resistance Audit:
- Define your "I can't."
- The Million Dollar Test: Ask yourself, "If someone paid me a million dollars to do this, could I?" If the answer is yes, it's not a capability issue—it's a willingness issue.
- Step 2: Weakness to Weapon:
- Flip the Script: The excuse is the reason. (e.g., "I'm not in shape" is the exact reason you must join the gym, not the reason to wait).
- Burn the Bridges: Create artificial deadlines or social pressure (like inviting guests over to force you to clean the house) to turn a "should" into a "must."
- Identity Shift: Stop saying "I'm trying" and start using affirmative "I am" statements to change how you view your own capabilities.
- Step 3: The Protocol of Execution:
- The "Do It Badly" Rule: Perfectionism causes procrastination. It is better to do something poorly and get started than to do nothing at all.
- The Countdown: When you feel hesitation, count down from 5 and physically move into action.
- The Contract: Write down your commitment and sign it to make it official.
Quotes from the Episode:
- "The excuse is the reason you should do it."
- "If I can't, I must. If I must, I will."
- "It's better to do it and get it done... you suck at it because you never did it."
ARN Suggested Reading:
Blessings In the Bullshit: A Guided Journal for Finding the BEST In Every Day – by Mark Cardone & Theron Feidt
https://www.amazon.com/Blessings-Bullshit-Guided-Journal-Finding/dp/B09FP35ZXX/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=blessings+in+the+bullshit&qid=1632233840&sr=8-1
Full List of Recommended Books: https://www.achieveresultsnow.com/readers-are-leaders
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