In this episode, Cheryl will discuss:
- Root cause #2 of relationship failure: not getting your needs met.
- How giving out of obligation leads to relationship failure
- A win-win strategy for asking your partner for your needs to be met.
Key Takeaways:
- Asking your partner to sacrifice their selfish needs for your selfish needs is a win-lose strategy.
- Sacrifices done to avoid further argument lead to a buildup of resentments which leads to a loss of passion.
- When asking your partner to do something that is in alignment with their highest values, they are going to respond more willingly.
- Sacrifices done to avoid further argument lead to a buildup of resentments which leads to a loss of passion.
- When asking your partner to do something that is in alignment with their highest values, they are going to respond more willingly.
“There is an art and a science to asking in such a way that it inspires an unreserved YES.” — Dr. John Demartini
Dr. Demartini The Heart of Love
https://www.drdemartini.com/values
Connect with Cheryl Herbst :
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Website: www.afraidtoloveagain.com
Email: Podcast@AfraidToLoveAgain.com
Book: How to Keep Your X’s & O’s from Becoming Exes & Woes
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