Blake Kasmeier is a storyteller known for his unique ability to capture life's raw and ordinary moments. Blake tells stories of parenting, grief, growing up, and where they sometimes collide. In 2022, Blake decided to start sharing his life stories on TikTok and has had a remarkable and unlikely ascent into the hearts and minds of parents, and kids of parents all across the internet. In 2018 Blake lost his mother to a brief but brutal fight with lung cancer and decided to document his experiences with loss in a nine-part podcast series called Good Grief.
Today's conversation delves into Blake's upbringing with artistic parents, his journey through grief, and fatherhood, and his undying urge to create. Cassie and Blake discover commonalities in their backgrounds, particularly their experiences growing up with sign painters as fathers. The episode explores the importance of noticing the small, often overlooked details in life and how these 'signs' shape our identities and experiences. Cassie and Blake discuss the struggles and joys of creating meaningful work, the impact of supportive partners, and the drive to leave a lasting mark. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their lives and the unnoticed signs guiding them.
00:00 Introduction to Blake Kaysmeyer
00:39 The Influence of Parents
01:18 The Art of Noticing
04:09 Creative Struggles and Inspirations
06:40 Journey Through Music and Writing
09:48 Finding Purpose in Creation
19:43 The Impact of Social Media
23:56 Opening Thoughts on Fatherhood
25:31 The Double Standard in Parenting Content
26:37 The Impact of Parenthood on Productivity
28:20 Reflections on Parenting Styles
34:27 The Role of Community and Tradition
40:56 The Importance of Supportive Partnerships
43:22 Final Reflections and Closing
Connect with Cassie:
Instagram: @cassiehawrysh
Facebook: Cassie Elise Hawrysh
Website: cassiehawrysh.com
