Who are you when no one’s watching? When you’re not trying to impress, achieve, or perform?
In this introspective solo episode of There Were Signs, Cassie opens up about the quiet struggle of authenticity in a world that rewards performance. Using her unique perspective growing up around a literal sign maker and later navigating the pressure of high-performance environments, she reflects on how we often become mirrors of what others expect from us.
Drawing on psychological insights like the “looking glass self” and the false self, Cassie dives into the complex relationship between visibility and vulnerability. Through deeply personal reflections including therapy moments and emotional realizations she invites listeners to consider what it might look like to remove the mask and live more fully as themselves.
This is a powerful episode for anyone feeling disconnected from their identity, wrestling with imposter syndrome, or craving a life that feels more real.
In this episode, you’ll reflect on:
00:00 – Asking the Right Questions
00:20 – Childhood Memories and the World of Signs
01:21 – Mirrors, Reflection, and the Hidden Self
02:17 – Performing for the World vs. Living for Yourself
03:19 – Therapy Breakthroughs and Inner Awareness
04:48 – The Journey Toward Your True Self
05:52 – Why Imperfection Is a Strength
07:28 – Speaking Honestly, Living Honestly
09:17 – Final Thoughts: You Are a Living Design
Connect with Cassie:
Instagram: @cassiehawrysh
Facebook: Cassie Elise Hawrysh
Website: cassiehawrysh.com
