Host Thomas Henley is joined by psychologist Laura Gwilt to explore the complexities of the manosphere — the digital world influencing millions of young men and autistic adults.
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Laura's Links: https://linktr.ee/lauragwilt
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In this episode, we discuss:
What the manosphere actually is, and how varied it is
The psychological appeal of the manosphere to autistic men and young neurodivergent boys
The role of loneliness, isolation, and emotional neglect in drawing men into these spaces
Society’s failure to emotionally support boys and men, especially autistic ones
The positive side of the manosphere — creators who offer structure, self-worth, and community
The darker side — toxic masculinity, misogyny, and emotional manipulation
Performative masculinity and internalised shame
The psychological concept of “fix me” narratives and why autistic men are vulnerable to them
How anger, trauma, and emotional repression are handled (or ignored) in male spaces
The emotional and developmental impact of being unsupported as a young autistic boy
How authentic belonging is often promised but rarely delivered by these communities
A breakdown of what healthy support looks like — from therapists, peers, and real connection
How autistic communication styles can be misunderstood or exploited in online dynamics
Laura Gwilt’s expert insights into male identity formation, emotion regulation, and cultural shifts needed to prevent harm
Hopeful paths forward — creating nuanced, inclusive communities for men that centre growth, honesty, and care
👽 Remember that Autism is a spectrum, and your experiences/opinions will likely differ from mine based on your background, traits, location, other diagnoses, personality, life experience, and much more.
❗️IMPORTANT NOTE: I am NOT a professional and you should consult a registered psychologist and doctor before taking any action
PLEASE share your experiences and thoughts in the COMMENTS!➡️
