Series 5: Borderline in Wonderland - Emotions like storms. Love like fire. A heart that’s too big for this tiny teacup world.
E108: Please Like Me, Please Approve Me
In this episode of Wonderland Unlocked, we sit with the aching need for approval—the quiet (or not-so-quiet) plea so many of us with BPD carry: Please like me. Please tell me I’m enough.
Whether it shows up as people-pleasing at work, craving praise from authority figures, or feeling crushed by neutral feedback, this episode unpacks the deep longing for validation that can shape our self-worth.
We’ll explore where this need comes from, how it plays out in professional and personal spaces, and how to begin untangling our value from others’ approval—without shaming ourselves for wanting connection.
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🗝️✨ I was never supposed to tellthis story. But I am.Foryears, I lived inside someone else’s version of my life — wrapped in secrets,silences, and bedtime stories that left too much out.
Now I’m writing the truth. Unlocked is my autobiography about adoption, anxiety, familyfractures, and the journey of reclaiming my voice.
I’m raising funds toprofessionally edit, design, print, and share this book with people who need toknow they’re not alone.
If you’ve ever been called too sensitive, too dramatic, too much — this book is for you.And if you believe in the powerof truth, I’d be so grateful if you could help me bring it into the world.
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