What does consent actually look like in modern dating and why does it matter more than chemistry?
In this episode of Dating App Apocalypse: Clever Girl’s Survival Guide, Clever Girl is joined by the Consentasaurus, Keeper of the Boundaries and sworn enemy of “but we already started.” Together, they unpack how consent shows up in real-life dating moments, from unsolicited photos and mixed signals to pressure disguised as romance and silence mistaken for permission.
This episode explores why attraction isn’t consent, politeness isn’t consent, and confusion definitely isn’t chemistry. You’ll learn how to recognize red flags, understand freeze responses, set boundaries without over-explaining, and spot the difference between healthy interest and entitlement. With feminist field-guide wisdom, humor, faux ads, and Petra the Passive-Aggressive Pterodactyl’s blunt truth bombs, this episode makes consent clear, practical, and yes, attractive.
Featuring the interactive Wheel of Vibes, real-world consent scenarios, communication check-ins, and tools for navigating dating apps, relationships, and digital boundaries with confidence and self-respect.
Consent isn’t paperwork.
It’s presence.
It’s clarity.
And it’s hot.
Perfect for anyone dating online, rebuilding boundaries, healing from people-pleasing, or learning how to trust their gut without apologizing for it.
