Have you ever felt like you’re living two lives?
In this episode, we dive deep into the tension many of us feel when our values seem to contradict each other -- stability vs. adventure, creativity vs. structure, cultural expectations vs. personal desires.
I open up about my own journey -- from corporate America to creative pursuits, from big tech to working at a nonprofit -- and how value polarity has shown up at every step. Most importantly, I share 3 powerful mindset shifts to help you make peace with these contradictions and actually use them to your advantage.
Whether you're feeling stuck in indecision or unsure which path to take, this episode is for you.
IN THIS EPISODE:
- What “value polarity” is and why it matters
- Real-life examples of how conflicting values can shape your career and life
- Three mindset shifts to navigate your own polarity with clarity and confidence
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro - feeling pulled in two directions
0:40 What is value polarity?
1:26 Examples of contradictory values
2:05 The "choose one" myth
2:54 My career timeline through polarities
4:40 Reframing value tension - 3 key ideas
9:20 Real-life example: moving from NY to TX
11:50 Living a more integrated life
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