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In this episode, Dr. Melissa Sadorf sits down with Kirby Rabalais, founder of Got4titude, a coaching and community program designed to support fathers raising children with special needs. While moms are often the focus of support systems, dads frequently walk this journey in silence. Kirby shares his personal story of his sonโs rare genetic diagnosis, the struggles and resilience his family has built along the way, and how he turned pain into purpose by creating a lifeline for other fathers.
This heartfelt conversation explores themes of masculinity, resilience, self-care, and redefining fatherhood in the face of challenges. Whether youโre a parent, an educator, or part of a rural community, Kirbyโs story offers inspiration and practical wisdom for building strength through connection.
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00:00 Introduction to The Rural Scoop
01:04 Meet Kirby Rabalais: Founder of Got4titude
02:11 Kirby's Personal Journey and the Birth of Got4titude
05:22 The Diagnosis and Its Impact
09:25 Redefining Fatherhood and Masculinity
17:27 Strategies for Support and Resilience
22:50 Building a Community for Fathers
25:44 Introduction to the Four Pillars
26:04 Challenges and Commonalities Among Fathers
27:19 Learning and Inspiration from Other Fathers
28:24 Advocating for Yourself and Your Child
32:59 Advice for New Fathers
35:55 Self-Care and Balancing Responsibilities
39:05 Future Vision and Measuring Success
42:49 Resources and Community Support
45:19 Final Thoughts and Reflections
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Got4titude was born out of lived experience. After receiving his sonโs rare genetic diagnosis, founder Kirby Rabalais was thrown into the emotional and logistical storm that so many parents of children with disabilities know too well. In the middle of shock, isolation, and endless questions, he realized one truth: there were almost no resources built specifically for fathers.
Instead of staying silent, Kirby decided to build what he wished he hadโa place for dads to find clarity, connection, and strength. Thatโs how Got4titude came to life: a mission-driven community that helps fathers navigate the unpredictable road of raising children with disabilities. Through raw conversations, coaching, and practical tools, Got4titude is redefining what support looks like for dads who often feel overlooked.
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- Learn more:ย www.got4titude.com
- Join the Inner Circle:ย https://www.got4titude.com/inner-circle
- Download the Fathers' Survival Toolkit (no cost):ย https://www.got4titude.com/store/p/fatherssurvivalkit-5dfzp-yhrcj
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Kirby Rabalaisโs journey reminds us that resilience is built not in isolation, but in connection. Through Got4titude, heโs creating a safe space where fathers of children with special needs can find courage, redefine masculinity, and learn to celebrate inchstones. His story is one of hope, healing, and advocacyโand it challenges us all to build stronger communities where no parent has to walk this path alone.
