Alexandra (so/sp 9w1 6w5 3w4) and Kristen (so/sp 9w1 6w5 3w2) begin to discuss what the "individuation" process may look like for attachment versus hexad types in the enneagram. Within the enneagram culture, the divide between hexad and attachment has been a curious and interesting pursuit as the two 'types within the types' attempt to understand themselves and the 'other'. These two triple-attachment hosts are aiming to marry that division by giving each 'side' their respects of how genuinely hard it is to individuate, and how maybe considering the 'other side' within ourselves could actually hold part of the individuation process.
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House of Enneagram Network:
Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.com
The Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.com
Official Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchool
Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ https://www.inkstoryrebel.com
Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction to Enneagram Concepts
02:41 Exploring Attachment Types
05:42 Understanding Hexad and Attachment
07:53 The Dynamics of Object Relations
10:49 The Role of Individuation in Attachment
13:49 Contrasting Attachment and Hexad Types
16:47 The Complexity of Self-Identity
28:37 Desires vs. Needs: Understanding the Inner Conflict
30:57 The Role of Attachment in Identity Formation
33:36 Tragic Fate: The Cycle of Frustration and Rejection
34:28 Individuation: The Path to Authentic Choice
37:54 Subjectivity and Objectivity: Navigating Personal Experiences
44:13 Vulnerability and Acceptance: Bridging the Gap
47:50 Authority and Autonomy: The Struggle Within
52:26 Exploring Attachment in Hexad Structures
01:01:30 The Journey of Self-Realization and Connection
01:11:07 The Complexity of Self-Image and External Perception
