In this episode of 'Good Ideas and Bad Decisions,' hosts Kat and Ellen are joined by Angie Enger, a sex and self-intimacy coach who shares her unique journey to becoming a coach and the importance of reclaiming pleasure in one's life. Angie dives deep into topics of responsive desire, the significance of individual self-intimacy, and practical tips for couples struggling with connection. Kat and Ellen also discuss the lack of cyclical care for women, the power of small pleasures, and creating intentional moments of connection. This insightful conversation is packed with valuable insights and practical advice for anyone looking to improve their intimate relationships and overall well-being.
Angie Enger is a Sex and Self Intimacy Coach - She helps women who spend all their time caring for others reconnect with their own pleasure by creating an environment to finally focus on their needs, instead of everyone else’s. Start your work with Angie by completing the form on her website, finding her on IG or connecting on TikTok. Join the waitlist for "Welcoming Pleasure" here: http://bit.ly/4mQBdwA
The books mentioned in this episode are:
Come As You Are (Amazon) (Bookshop.org)
Come Together (Amazon) (Bookshop.org)
Vagina (Amazon) (Bookshop.org)
Kat is the Owner + Operator of kat&co and brings a unique perspective with her psychology background and experience in creative business operations, making her adept at discussing the intersection of creativity and structured processes. Join The kat&co Download!
Ellen is the Owner of Ellen Hockley Consulting and offers valuable insights from her extensive experience in building successful small businesses and empowering female entrepreneurs, providing practical advice on business strategy and growth.
00:00 Welcome to Good Ideas and Bad Decisions
01:14 Meet Our Guest: Angie, the Sex and Intimacy Coach
02:27 Angie's Journey: From Counseling to Coaching
04:37 Starting a Business and Overcoming Challenges
06:35 The Importance of Self-Intimacy
13:17 Navigating Relationships and Communication
24:21 Angie's Coaching Process and Client Engagement
28:36 Introduction to the Pleasure List
28:56 Simple Pleasures in Everyday Life
29:58 Creating Playful and Romantic Moments
31:14 Yearly Themes and Romanticizing Life
32:40 Connection and Building Relationships
33:26 Upcoming Workshops and Certifications
35:48 Understanding Types of Desire
36:06 Tips for Couples with Responsive Desire
38:10 The Importance of Willingness and Foreplay
39:46 Sexual Values and Connection
43:08 Final Thoughts and Words of Wisdom