We were all raised differently, but your parents/mentor ever teach you to be a good listener or have ever you been taught to be observant? Some times we miss out on understanding other around us or don’t know how to deal with other because of our trauma. Break that cycle and do more for yourself, no one needs you more than your children, and no one has your back like you. Tune into the realness of understanding ppl and what you can do better for yourself.