Description

In this episode of 'How to Share', Wynne Leon speaks with professor and author Dr. Vicki Atkinson about the nuances of giving and receiving feedback, particularly in the context of writing. Vicki shares insights from her own experiences as a writer, emphasizing the importance of separating one's ego from their work, the value of a growth mindset, and the significance of asking the right questions when seeking feedback.

The conversation also touches on the dynamics of feedback, the timing of giving and receiving it, and the emotional challenges that come with the creative process. Vicki provides a sneak peek into her upcoming novel, which draws from her family history, and reflects on the role of feedback in her writing journey.

Takeaways

• Feedback is a tricky subject that requires discernment.
• Separating ego from work is essential for growth.
• Asking the right questions can lead to more useful feedback.
• Timing and context matter when giving feedback.
• Not all feedback is created equal; choose your sources wisely.
• It's important to let your work develop before seeking feedback.
• Receiving feedback can be both enthralling and challenging.
• You can choose which feedback to integrate into your work.
• Emotional distance can help in processing feedback.
• Be clear about what you are asking for when seeking feedback.

Links for this episode:

How to Share home

Vicki’s book about resilience and love: Surviving Sue;

Vicki's Blog: https://victoriaponders.com/

Wynne’s book about her beloved father: Finding My Father’s Faith;

Wynne's Blog: https://wynneleon.com/