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What if the emotions you’ve been hiding—anger, insecurity, even shame—aren’t actually the problem, but your greatest teachers?

In this eye-opening episode of Marriage of Greatness, hosts Susan Money and Evan Money tackle a bold new perspective: “Emotions Are Meant To Be Instructive Not Destructive.”

Drawing inspiration from author Tom Holiday, Evan Money reveals his deeply personal journey of overcoming years of rage stemming from childhood pain, showing how unresolved feelings can quietly sabotage relationships, careers, and happiness. Susan Money brings relatable wisdom, sharing how our bottled-up hurts will find their way out, usually at the worst possible moment—and often over something trivial like shopping bags left in the car.

Together, the couple challenges listeners to rethink their relationship with negative emotions. Are you labeling all discomfort as “bad,” ignoring pain because it feels safer, and then finding yourself caught in destructive loops of anger, greed, or insecurity? This episode uncovers how even subtle signs—fake smiles, slammed objects, or endless accumulation—are really signals from within, urging you to heal and grow.

Key highlights include:

• Why romance doesn’t die, it “loses its caretakers”—and how daily, intentional choices matter more than perfection
• Gripping personal stories about forgiveness, healing, and the surprising freedom that comes from facing your emotional truth
• The real reason we get stuck in cycles of suffering and comfort—even preferring pain over the unknown
• How to break the “just a little more” mindset, whether it’s money, stuff, or emotional baggage
• Practical steps for couples to process feelings early, ask better questions, and avoid destructive blow-ups
• Strategies for dealing with root causes rather than symptoms, and the power of community and support

Ready to step out of hiding and into healing? Susan Money and Evan Money guide you through a powerful reframing of emotions that just might transform not only your marriage, but every relationship you have.

Timestamped Overview:

• 00:00:01 – Introduction: Your heart always leaks into your actions

• 00:01:08 – Welcome to new listeners; shout-outs and inspiration

• 00:01:55 – Emotions leak out into actions, words, and attitudes—especially for men

• 00:03:26 – Emotions: Instructive, not destructive;

  Evan Money

  ’s story of anger and forgiveness

• 00:07:53 – Processing emotions for healing (and why symptoms disappear when you address the root cause)

• 00:09:34 – Comfortable suffering: Why we avoid dealing with pain until it blows up

• 00:10:00 – The “bad knee” analogy: Delaying healing and the years wasted in pain

• 00:12:11 – Deal with issues early; prioritize relationships over distractions

• 00:13:44 – Symptoms beyond anger: Hoarding, greed, and the never-enough trap

• 00:16:42 – Escalating addictions: Plastic surgery, tattoos, and culture’s insatiable demands

• 00:18:11 – Get to the root: Release shame and guilt; emotions as indicators for growth

• 00:19:27 – Action steps: How will you process and grow?

• 00:19:52 – Outro: Where to follow the Money’s journey and connect further

Don’t miss this candid, heartfelt episode that could help you turn pain into purpose, and everyday reactions into lasting greatness.