In this episode, Ayushi Acharya and Coach Varsha Mathur delve into the complexities of modern love, discussing topics such as navigating dating after divorce, the impact of dating apps on self-esteem, and the importance of self-worth. Varsha shares insights on the ideal client for coaching, the significance of understanding negotiable and non-negotiable criteria in relationships, and the stigma surrounding divorce in the South Asian community. The conversation also touches on the challenges of attracting emotionally unavailable partners, building confidence after rejection, and the nuances of healing versus avoiding intimacy. Varsha emphasizes the importance of communication and support in relationships, and how coaching can help individuals and couples navigate their journeys toward fulfilling partnerships.
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Chapters
00:00 Navigating Modern Love and Dating Culture
01:37 Understanding the Role of a Dating Coach
05:28 The Impact of Dating Apps on Self-Esteem
09:36 Defining Relationship Standards: Negotiables vs. Non-Negotiables
11:33 The Discrepancy in Readiness for Commitment
15:37 Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners
17:38 Building Confidence After Rejection
21:29 Healing vs. Avoiding Intimacy
24:29 Understanding Attachment Styles in Relationships
27:20 Understanding Love Languages
27:55 The Stigma of Divorce in South Asian Communities
31:03 Navigating Life After Divorce
35:02 Supporting Friends Through Divorce
37:08 Singles vs. Couples Coaching
38:37 The Dynamics of Couples Coaching
40:58 The Role of Coaching in Dating
42:57 Trends in Divorce Rates Among South Asians
45:28 The Role of Coaching in Relationship Success
47:53 Mediation Skills in Coaching
50:32 Finding Coaching Services
