What happens when the judge takes off the robe?
In this episode, I sit down with Judge Jessica Goodey, our very own “Judge Judy with more heart.” We talk about law, leadership, and life ... from redefining justice with empathy to rediscovering joy after divorce.
Jessica shares what it’s like behind the bench when the courtroom closes: the hard days, the heartbreak, the humor (yes, there’s a “make my kitty purr” story 😳😂), and the quiet rediscovery of self-trust and fun.
This one’s for anyone rebuilding after a big life change, learning to speak up for their happiness, or remembering that even the most powerful people are still beautifully human.
“Some days are hard on the bench. But you don’t let a shitty day become a shitty tomorrow.”
Tune into The Mess and the Magic for this heart-centered, no-robes-required conversation about courage, kindness, and starting over.
Who this episode is for:
Anyone navigating divorce, reinvention, or a big identity shift
People curious (or anxious) about how court actually works
Women in leadership leveling up despite imposter syndrome
Service-minded pros who want to lead with empathy and boundaries
Key Takeaways:
Access to justice: Justice Court is the “people’s court.” You can appear without an attorney; the goal is clarity, fairness, and being heard.
Human first: Kindness, dignity, and respect change courtroom experiences, even when outcomes aren’t happy.
Leave room for joy: Hard days happen; don’t let a “shitty day” become a “shitty tomorrow.” Support teams (and small rituals) matter.
Speak up for yourself: You don’t need to be 100% “ready” to lead. Raise your hand, ask for the role, learn as you go.
Rebuilding after loss: Choosing your own happiness may cost routines and roles, but it opens space for self-trust, fun, and saying “yes” again.
Courts are public: You can observe proceedings in person or via Zoom. Great way to demystify court before you ever need it.
Links:
Observe Judge Goodey’s court: Justice Court info & public Zoom access page
Small Claims & Evictions (Clark County/Las Vegas): How to file, deadlines, forms
Judge Jessica Goodey bio/contact: For courthouse tours / community education
Books mentioned:
Show mentioned: Love Life (streaming)
Local arts shoutout: The Smith Center (Las Vegas)
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