A voice note about something too many Black women recognise but rarely say out loud:
why the loudest attempts to shrink us online often come from the very men we expect solidarity from.
In this episode, I talk through the sting, the confusion, the cultural layers, and the quiet grief behind those moments and why it still shocks me every time.
This isn’t a drag, it’s a reflection.
A wish for better.
A reminder that we deserve to be seen, supported, and uplifted by our own… not policed or put back in a box.
If you’ve ever felt this dynamic in your body, this one’s for you.
