In Case File 02: Becoming the Problem, Kelly traces how growing up in chaos wires a brain for one rule: stay ready. When adults label a kid "a problem," they rarely ask the real questionwhat happened to her?
This episode includes a content note for childhood volatility, aggression, and emotional abuse (no graphic details). Kelly shares what it was like living in instability, walking on glass, and learning "rules" about love and harm that were never real-until anger became
armor.
Through the Rewired Lens, she unpacks what she believed then ("if I'm the scariest person in the room, nobody can hurt me) versus what she knows now: armor gets heavy, lonely, and dangerous-and "acting out" is often communication.
