It wasn’t the number of lovers that shaped her, it was what she discovered in them.
Sandra, 33, could only truly surrender when nothing was at stake.
In short encounters she found freedom, but in love she found fear.
When relationships deepened her body hesitated. The fear of losing stability, safety or being left made her close.
She longed to love for real, to lead from love, not from fear.
Together with Britta Kunze, we explore how trauma, safety and self-worth shape a woman’s capacity for pleasure and why true desire can only breathe where fear ends.
Because real intimacy doesn’t begin when we are desired,
it begins when we feel safe enough to stay open.
