You are always choosing. Another chapter from "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck" that inspired me to make the most out of every situation. Even something horrible that's not your fault, you now can take responsibility for every choice moving forward. Fault is past tense, while responsibility is present tense. Take notice about the times you blame others or seek revenge. Raise your awareness by understanding those are choices and take responsibility for them. Ultimately, making different, new choices may mean changing your values which can be super uncomfortable. It can disrupt everything you've built thus far.....but it's worth it! To me, the hard decision is well worth the free, happy, passionate life!!