In this episode of After Peter Pan, host Pat Tenneriello sits down with death doula Paul Simard to explore grief, death, and how to face mortality without avoidance. Paul shares his experience supporting individuals and families through dying, and reflects on how modern Western culture has distanced itself from death—outsourcing it to hospitals, funeral homes, and institutions in ways that leave many of us unsure how to respond when someone dies. Pat and Paul discuss why we struggle to talk about death, the language we use around grief, the fear and discomfort beneath our reactions, and how our beliefs shape the way we approach dying. Together, they explore what it means to be present with someone who is dying, how to support someone who is grieving, and why death may not be a failure—but part of the natural cycle of life.
What You’ll Learn:
Why so many people feel uncomfortable when someone dies
How to support someone who is grieving
Why we avoid talking about death and how that affects us
What a death doula does and how they help during the dying process
How reframing mortality as an act of service can change the way we live
