In Dan Stribling's sermon, "How Do We Live?", he reflects on 1 Timothy Chapter 3, where Paul describes the qualifications for church elders and deacons. Initially hesitant about preaching on such a seemingly procedural topic, Stribling finds deep significance in the chapter, likening it to a “supporting structure” that upholds the church community. He uses architectural metaphors to describe the church as a “pillar and buttress of the truth,” emphasizing that the church’s role is to uphold and support God’s truth. The sermon compares this foundation to organizing and renewing a household, drawing a parallel to Extreme Makeover: Church Edition, highlighting the need for spiritual upkeep and renewal.
Stribling breaks down each qualification for elders and deacons, explaining them as qualities everyone should strive for—such as integrity, faithfulness, sobriety, gentleness, and humility—traits that reflect the character of Christ. He underscores that these standards not only apply to church leaders but serve as a spiritual benchmark for all believers, illustrating that church leadership begins at home, in personal conduct, and in one's family life. The sermon closes with a call for believers to maintain a clear conscience and strong faith, upholding the "mystery of godliness," with an invitation to live as “supporting structures” within the church. Through humility and consistent obedience to God, Stribling urges his congregation to embody the qualities Paul advocates, fostering a church that serves as a steadfast foundation for the truth.