In this five-minute episode, we break down The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga — a Japanese philosophy book inspired by Alfred Adler’s teachings. It’s about freeing yourself from the fear of judgment and learning to live on your own terms.
We begin with the central lesson: you are not controlled by your past. Adlerian psychology teaches that life is shaped not by what happened to you, but by the meaning you give it.
Then, we explore interpersonal freedom. True happiness comes when you stop living for approval. The courage to be disliked is really the courage to be authentic.
Next, we examine task separation — focusing only on what’s within your control and releasing what belongs to others. This concept dissolves anxiety and people-pleasing.
Finally, we close with community feeling (Gemeinschaftsgefühl) — living with purpose and contribution, not competition.
This episode will leave you lighter, freer, and ready to live truthfully.
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