You don’t get your life together before you heal.
You get it together as you heal, slowly, unevenly, imperfectly.
In this episode, I share stories from before I became a teacher, waiting tables, growing up poor, living in a trailer by the river, and learning the hard way that love isn’t something you earn after you prove yourself.
I talk about saying no to people who cared about me because I didn’t feel worthy yet, about confusing independence with isolation, and about what I learned from the ones who saw my soul anyway.
This episode is for anyone who has ever believed they had to fix their life before they were allowed to be loved.
For anyone who grew up with less but was rich in ways they didn’t understand at the time.
For anyone healing, protecting their heart, and still choosing to stay open.
It’s about simplicity, substance, and the kind of love that doesn’t care what you look like on paper.
Because some people choose prestige, some people choose money, and some people recognize soul.
And roughing it still feels like home to me.
