How do you lead hard conversations, build psychological safety, and get real accountability without trying to control every outcome? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Amanda Fernandez to break down the “human element” of leadership: the mindset shifts and practical tools that turn tense teams into collaborative teams.
We get into:
Why “I don’t know” can be a power move that builds trust (not weakness).
The moment leadership stops being “control” and becomes “elevate people.”
How to co-create team agreements (so accountability is shared, not dumped on the leader).
What “fail forward” looks like when you’re rebuilding culture from the ground up.
Why change doesn’t always explode, sometimes it spreads one ripple at a time.
Plus, we run the Elemental segments:
Grounded Moments (Job Guesser), Principle or Preference, Flip the Script, and Final Answer.
If you’re leading in a top-down culture and you want more ownership, better ideas, and fewer silent meetings, this one’s for you.
Leave a comment: What’s the one team conversation you know you need to have, but you keep delaying?
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0:00 What's the hardest truth leaders avoid about how they show up for their teams?0:46 Why is saying "I don't know" one of the fastest ways to build trust?2:23 When did leadership stop being about control and start being about elevating people?4:13 How do you lead after you've been sabotaged from the inside out?6:07 How do you have a hard conversation without making it personal?9:14 Can a quick game reveal how you actually lead under pressure (Grounded Moments)?11:48 What did hauling firewood teach you about responsibility and leadership?15:15 How do you "level up" your role to scale your impact?22:12 How do team social contracts turn culture into something measurable?25:04 What do you do when someone breaks the agreement they co-signed?29:02 Principle or preference: can you answer without overthinking it?37:48 Flip the Script: how would you reframe a messy leadership dilemma?42:36 Can change spread one ripple at a time instead of blowing everything up?50:40 Final Answer: what would you choose when there's no middle option?52:03 What pushed you to start Waypoint North before you felt ready?59:25 What's the simplest "fail forward" move you can try this week?
