Nicole Robinson shared about her struggle with infertility and her early pregnancy loss. She talked about the physical pain being terrible and that the emotional pain she wouldn't wish on anybody. Nicole's husband took her to the ER and they confirmed her loss. They were told there was no product of conception and on the paper work it said a spontaneous abortion. Nicole said I felt like an abortion is a choice and this was not the choice I made. We wanted this baby and the medical language was very harsh.
Nicole said I closed the bottle on the loss and didn't really deal with it for a while. She said all I thought was I can have another baby and that is what will make it better. She talked about in a couple months I was back to charting and watching for ovulation signs and becoming upset and depressed with every negative test or menstrual cycle that started for over a year. Listen to how Nicole went on to be totally surprised with the news of her other pregnancies.
Nicole's words of encouragement for you: Work hard on not getting tunnel vision. Be aware of yourself and when you are getting to only caring about a positive pregnancy test. You can miss beautiful things that are happening in your life. I think for so long maybe because of being from a big family, I thought that my main purpose was to have a bunch of kids. God has different plans for everyone. They are unique and beautiful and wherever you are, you were born for this. There is a purpose for you whether children or not. There are so many things in life so don't let stress drag you down and you miss the beauty around you.
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