Kindness is relative. Depending on what you are thinking, that person might be kind or not, since they might think they are being kind, when really they are not being kind. You get to decide. When you are kind it is a lot easier for others to hear unpleasant things about themselves. When you are being kind, it is also a lot easier for you to hear the things that you do not do well. When someone is telling you something about you that you might need to hear, are you kind? Kindness is relative, which means that the way that you receive it is the way that you give it. https://tinyurl.com/y4kropz2 I love you. I am Dan Clark