When someone tells me they are doing good, I often think in comparison to what, last week or last year, or yesterday, when are we good? Are we good when we feel loved and treated well, and our marriage is good when things are going our way? Well, that's odd to me. I'm good when I have friends who actually see me accurately. Good to me is when I'm real about my deeper self, and my own good and bad behavior. We never see ourselves accurately. So I never tell myself that I'm good. I asked my friends if I'm good. And listen to what they have to say to me, because I can't see myself accurately. I love you. I'm Dan Clark.