Have you ever hummed while someone was talking to you? I am working with a couple and he was humming while she was talking Not very effective communication. She kept repeating the same thing in different words and he was just done with the conversation. We have all been there, done with the current conversation . Quality conversations get to the point quickly. Research says that after the third senttence what you are saying can't be remembered anyway. Shorten up those conversations and see what if understanding improves. https://tinyurl.com/y4kropz2 I love you I'm Dan Clark