What are you actually doing? Yes, I want to know what you're doing. I don't want to know what the other person is doing. I don't want to see what you think about what they're doing and what you think about what's happening. I want to see what you are doing. Why do I want to know that? Because that's the actual truth. Did you say a swear word? Did you throw something? Did you slam the door? Did you get outraged and walk away? Were you so angry that you couldn't talk to them for days? What were you thinking about? See, truth is about what you're doing, not your perception of what's happening. When working with someone, I want to know if they're telling me the truth. And if they don't tell me what they're doing and are truthful and honest about it, it makes it very difficult for them to look at all truth accurately. I love this quote; it says this. If you do not tell the truth about yourself, you cannot tell it about other people, just to Virginia Woolf. That means that please tell the truth about yourself first and then talk about what other people are doing. Hi, love you. I'm Dan Clark.