We all have a plan. We plan to get our dream job by a certain age. We plan to get that prestigious internship during the summer. We plan to get that number of clients to build our business. We plan to get attached and married by 30. And sometimes, in fact, most times, things don't go according to plan. Here are the bumps and turns in my life, and three things that helped me through it. [Share your thoughts using #ThriveWithRae | Follow me @raematrix]