In today's episode, I’ve invited two of the best people I know to give you some successful relationship tips. Because let's be honest, if you're not proactive in working to take your relationship with your spouse, or your kids, or your business partners to the next level, it can have a massive detrimental impact on your personal happiness and your business success.
So today, I'm bringing on two of the best relationship coaches I know. Their names are Lindsay Hammond and Lisa Jones. They own and run a company called The Big D’ Coaches, and they are on a mission to change the world. Lindsay and Lisa bring a refreshing take on this game that is known as relationships. They are willing to dive into the darkness that allows couples to experience breakthroughs and create Win-Win agreements so that both partners are getting their needs met, one tough conversation at a time.
What You’ll Hear In This Episode
- Why is communication the most vital aspect of every relationship?
- How do you communicate effectively with your partner if both of you have different communication styles?
- "Acknowledging and listening without judgment takes a lot of self-awareness."
- Can you learn self-awareness?
- How does trauma affect relationships?
- What are the two types of trauma?
- Why is it difficult to coach individuals that suffered from a family origin trauma? How does this kind of trauma affect relationships?
- What is the byproduct of intimacy?
- How long do couples usually take to come out from the dark place and step into the other side?
- How people tend to avoid the dark side, not knowing that is where they will see the light?
- Why is the statement "if it's love, it would be easy" misleading?
- Is the statement, "it takes two to tango" true for every relationship? Or one person is enough to change the course?
- Why is blaming other people for your unhappiness is one of the biggest mistakes in relationships?
- How can blame create poison in your relationship?
- What are some of the biggest mistakes in relationships that often lead down the path of divorce?
- What's the broken wings syndrome?
- "If you want something to change, if you want something to be different, you have to be the source of what's different."
- Why do you have to choose discomfort over resentment?
- What do Lindsay and Lisa tell their younger self that will help them get results faster in their marriage?
Links Mentioned In This Episode
Thebigdcoaches.com
@thebigdcoaches
ajamyx.com/books
@ajamyx