As a woman, who is SAHM, that "holy" statement is BS! We are human and have human emotions. We are seen in society is to always have it figured out, and our spouses (especially men, who get praised for every little fucking thing!). Yes, they make a salary and that's why they mostly get validated, but when their success is always being put in your face, it feels-not only condescending-but makes us feel like our successes means nothing. And it sucks when people outside of you are constantly throwing how GREAT your spouse is and you are left with feeling less than you already are. You are not! We have it hard and, if not, harder. We watch, teach, clean, cook, handle our little ones and rewarded with watching them grow, as well as their milestones! Realize our validation to ourselves IS enough (spouses who respect and see US). Think what will bring you happiness, now. This is a learning curve, so let's get off autopilot and fly to help find that validation for yourself! I know I will!!!
