Seeing it from another person's view it's good, but they shouldn't expect you to live that way. Their way is not the answer for everybody else. They think, just because it works out so nicely for them, it's not going to for the whole world. Take marriage for example, they won't get married because they think it's stupid, okay, great but to try and shove it down YOUR throat and get you to live differently is upsetting. If that's the case, not worth the time and energy!
