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“The purpose of the marriage is to provide the context for individual growth and evolution”

My guest on this week’s episode of The Lifestyle First Podcast is Dr Alexandra Stockwell, also known as The Intimacy Doctor. She’s the author of the book, “Uncompromising intimacy” and also hosts her own podcast, “The Intimate Marriage Podcast.”

In this episode we:

Discuss the evolution of marriage

Explore being uncompromising as the key to marriage

Talk about honouring your own experiences just as much as you honour your partner's

Discuss taking action together and not allowing unmet needs to go unidentified

Explore conscious partnership

Highlight moving through transitions

Discuss bringing more intentionality to moments of interaction

Talk about focus on the connection as much as the content

Explore cultivating curiosity to create the feelings of love

Discuss changing the culture of marriage

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1. The one question we discuss is “What makes marriage work?”

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2. The two references we look at are

(i) Alexandra Stockwell. Uncompromising Intimacy. 2020

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Uncompromising-Intimacy-unfulfilling-satisfying-partnership/dp/1734516909

(ii) John Gottman. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. 2018. Orion Spring

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/184188295X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1636840302&sr=1-1

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3. The three actions to take are:

· Pay attention to the transitions in your marriage and make them more satisfying.

· Cultivate curiosity with questions.

· Take some time to think about what you want.

Which of these 3 actionable tips will you implement?

Leave your comments below.

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DISCLAIMER: This content does not constitute or substitute personal one-to-one professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your doctor or health care professional with questions about your health.

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