Want to achieve the very best experiences in life, business and Sports? Learn to focus you efforts on only the things you can control. We don’t have any control over who Wins a game. We can only influence it. So focus on what you can do to be and do your best. Focus on where you put your effort. Focus on creating the experiences and feeling and attitudes you desire. Have a goal of Winning, sure. But do not attach your value, identity, peace or joy to Winning. Because, if/when you lose, it will cause more problems than all the good you think Winning will do.