We oftentimes hide from situations where we can't predict or control the outcome.
Most of our fear lies in how much we depend on our ability to control the situation and our fear of not receiving the exact outcome as our expectations.
Such a masculine thing - to always need to be in control. So much so, you don't give yourself the opportunity to be seen at all.
In this episode of the Golden Hour Series, I talk about why humans crave so much certainty. We hide so much from others... so much so, we choose to hide from ourselves. Our dreams. Our needs, our biggest wants. We dim our opinions, our messiness, our "this is too much of me" to accommodate others. We want other imperfect humans to think of us as the basis of what we define as the worthiness we must meet in order to be accepted. This way of being is such a disservice to others. It's such a disservice to you.
I share the pervasive discomfort that is the side effect of showing up, being seen in all of my messiness- and being the imperfect human that I am and how showing up constantly activates my fear (my core wound) that is reinforced by my Chiron in Leo in the area of my work (6th house).
How do you show up consistently and be seen despite the uncertainty and discomfort? Listen to find out.
