"I find that once you start helping others, it makes you feel better about yourself. It helps you figure out what you want to do with your own life."
— Lance Bass
We never lose anything when we love and serve others. There are so many studies and research that explains how serving others is so helpful to our emotional, spiritual, and physical health. It has been said that a candle doesn't lose anything by lighting another candle and I tend to agree. But while you are expending your efforts and love into service of others even when it's costly you are changing this world and that love you reflect gets rid of a little bit more of the darkness that can overwhelm us. If we all loved and served each other I think the darkness inherent to the human condition wouldn't stand a change. Love yourself! And then use that love for others and that's what changing the world is all about.