We have all either heard or participated in gossip. It is fun. It is interesting. We all like to be "in the know". However, gossip is a sure way to ruin your reputation and integrity.
Proverbs 18:7-8 tells us that rumors are "tasty morsels" and that the mouth gets you into trouble.
Proverbs 21:23 tells us to keep our mouth shut and we will stay out of trouble.
If you hear yourself saying, "please keep this between you and I" or "can you keep a secret?" or someone asks you these questions, stop the conversation. Don't receive or give any information. Let it lie. Stop and keep your mouth closed.
Bottom line is this. If you would not want your words broadcast on the 6 o'clock news, don't let them come out of your mouth. (Proverbs 20:19)
Use your words to praise God and encourage and edify others. Lift up rather than tear down. (James 3:2-12)