Do you find yourself questioning whether it is God or you?
When you "hear" from God are you able to check it against the Bible? God won't contradict His word. Are you going over and over and over it in your mind? God doesn't obsess with the problem or situation. He wants us to speak to the problem! Are you fearing what you will lose out on or miss having or are you fearing the risk of uncertainty? The enemy will want to keep you thinking you will lose out, God wants you to trust Him! The world's answer to the question will make you doubt, fear rejection and make you obsess on the problem. God's answer brings peace. God never operates in confusion. Are you looking for God's approval or man's?