Self-confidence is the problem. You don't need it. It really is messing you up and keeping you stuck. You have to keep starting over. Self-Confidences allows us to gain confidence in our abilities because our successes make us feel worthwhile, secure and significant. We feel good about ourselves until the day we don't. The moment we fail at something we were "good" at, we lose a bit of confidence. The comment from the person we respected causes us to doubt ourselves.
The only true confidence to seek and strive for is God Confidence. When we fully depend on God for every single thing and ask Him to guide and lead our every decision, and believe His word that He goes before us and plans our steps, we walk with a confidence that is unlike any other.
Our mission is seek and serve God in all things. Obedience to His word will show you His faithfulness. You will have a track record of all the times He came through for you and begin to trust and believe more in His truth. When you do this over and over you will develop God Confidence and you will move forward as if you know tomorrow's lottery numbers.
