Shockingly, it's now clear that the very structure of traditional church is a serious obstacle to making friends.
How do we know?
As Michael Frost writes, multitudes of people are walking away from church. He says "churches are dying due to friendlessness". The Lonely Crowd: Churches Dying Due to Friendlessness
The LK10 Community has answers to this serious problem. One of the answers is learning to ask questions that matter.