Description

In this episode, Craig interviews Jerrad Lopes, the host of the Dad Tired Podcast. They discuss Jerrad journey of faith, the struggles he faced in his marriage, and how these experiences led to the creation of the Dad Tired ministry. The conversation explores the importance of healing for men, the evolution of the Dad Tired ministry over the years, and the significance of community in supporting one another through struggles. Jerrad emphasizes that strong families begin with healed men and encourages listeners to seek deep relationships where they can be fully known and loved. 

In this conversation, Craig Thompson and Jerrad Lopes explore the importance of authentic community among men, particularly in the context of fatherhood and personal healing. They discuss the challenges of finding deep relationships within larger church settings and emphasize the need for intentionality in building connections. Jerrad shares his personal journey of healing and how it has transformed his life and relationships, highlighting the significance of vulnerability and integrity. The discussion also touches on practical ways to foster community and support among men, encouraging listeners to seek out meaningful friendships and be open about their struggles.

Takeaways

• The Dad Tired ministry began from personal struggles.
• Jared’s marriage was on the brink of divorce.
• He felt the weight of repeating his father’s mistakes.
• The kindness of God through his wife led to his repentance.
• The ministry has evolved to focus on healing men.
• Strong families begin with healed men.
• Community is essential for men to share their struggles.
• Men need opportunities to experience authentic relationships.
• Healing is essential for personal growth and integrity.
• Creating safe spaces for sharing is crucial.
• Intentionality is key in building lasting friendships.
• Empathy grows through shared pain and experiences.
• Men’s ministries should focus on holistic healing.
• Building a contact list of trusted friends is valuable for young men.

Chapters

00:00Introduction to the Dad Tired Podcast

01:25Jared Lopes: A Journey of Identity and Faith

02:28The Birth of Dad Tired: From Struggles to Ministry

07:06Evolution of the Dad Tired Ministry

10:24The Importance of Healing for Men

12:28Finding Community and Support

20:33Redefining Community for Men

22:43The Quest for Authentic Community

25:15Shifting Focus: Healing and Discipleship

26:50Personal Transformation Through Healing

30:08Building Connections: The Importance of Community

34:01Creating Safe Spaces for Vulnerability

39:14Empathy Through Shared Pain