In this Solita, Solita Episode, founder and host Rosanna Alvarez addresses the struggle inherent in social media challenges. As she acknowledges her own fumblings, she offers some perspective from a compassionate space of shared responsibility. She discusses how shame is a dysfunctional reflex that derails us from longterm accountability and that also serves to silence women's voices. Her candid reflection reminds us to be compassionate with ourselves as a step toward addressing the issues beyond a complex complicit space of self-silencing.