I’ve noticed how much easier it is to instinctively react to something with criticism in comparison to instinctively giving positive reinforcement for behaviors in others. This especially applies to people with whom we have more rocky and challenging relationships, along with people with whom we share a lot of intimacy (but less so in that case, in my experience). I share more about this reflection here, which I hope you find to be useful. As always, thanks for listening. Much Love ❤️ and please take care.