In this talk, I react to an article that I just read in a New York Times opinion piece about a different way of looking at all of the atrocities that we have seen here in the US. Not the guns, not the general mental health, but how we raise our boys. I give my thoughts here on why the way we raise our boys needs to change now and what specifically needs to change. I hope you all can engage in this message. I hope you can see how important it is to me in this talk.