Many have experienced or are experiencing things their parents did experience and some have taken it as the norm but it is not the way God planned things to be. When God created you (man) He said you(man) and everything else createdis good. So, anything going wrong is of the devil and must be assessed early to stop it from continuing. The devil deceives you into thinking and reacting wrongly so you don't come out of it and he can destroy you. It is time to assess it and find the way of escape created by God who is love. Don't lie to yourself or avoid assessing because of anger, bitterness, unforgiveness etc. Than is the devil's plan to keep you down. Never let it remain.